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Your Russian, Latin & Asian Marriage Agency Checklist - By THE Leader in Anti-Scam - Jim

Don't know what HRB or RLM is? "Horny Russian Babes" &
"Russian Lanky Models".
Click here.

Why is there this special page for complaints against
HRB, RLM and their friends?

This is because they are a HUGE scam and they are finding more and more local agencies to join their group, because it makes them (both RLM & the local agency) more money. The video chat is 80% scam, committed by Ukrainian offices.. And the rest of the agency is not any better.

MASSIVE NEWS - FEBRUARY, 2010 - GREAT EVIDENCE FROM THE SOURCE - CLICK HERE

(Links to MORE complaints...)

(link back to main HRB page)

PLEASE make a complaint about this agency at the BBB!!!!
http://www.orlando.bbb.org/complaints/commoncomplaint.html?step=1

Read blogs written by a former employee...

http://www.greencuckolds.blogspot.com

http://nuestroshombresdechat.blogspot.com/

http://ourmeninchat.blogspot.com/

In my OPINION...

Based on the THOUSANDS OF reports that I have received...

It APPEARS that this site/agency...

Complaints...

Here is some inside information about HRB...

THIS IS PROOF FROM A RUSSIAN GIRL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Jim,
I just received this email.  I obtained a free membership at RLM 2
months ago strictly for the entertainment value.  I had read your warnings
beforehand, but I figured since they allowed me to read the email for free, why not.
 I used a prepaid credit card to purchase some credits and chatted with a few women,
1 or 2 who I think were legitimate.  I was actually able to give one woman contact
info through the chat function and she has contacted me directly.   I must admit I
saw many of the same things that others have pointed out here.  Anyway, I just
wanted to pas on this message that corroborates what you and others have been saying
about this site.   Once I use up my current credits, I 'm not going back.  Thanks for the warnings.
****

> From: email@HRB
> To: ****@hotmail.com
> Subject: Fwd: IMPORTANT!!!!!!
>
> Account: ****
> Username: ****
> Message: Hello
> My name is ****.
>  I am 20. I was a translator of this (and many others) girl. I worked in the
"Orchid" company in Dnipropetrovs'k city, Ukraine. Sorry for writing from this
profile but I do this because my profile was closed ( actually I didn't search
husband, I have it - but this helped me to earn money as nobody knows it on the
other side of earth). I want to tell you some very important things about my
ex-work. It will help you to understand many things and tricks our company was using to take your money.
> Maybe you will think "why I am doing that", but this I am doing because they are
not honest not only to the clients like you but for workers as well.  I worked
hardly almost 2 months, worked many time 10-12 hours at nights on chats (because
of time difference with your country) although in the morning I had to go to
university (as I am a student yet) And after all they paid me only USD50 with no
any explanations. After that I got to know that I am not the first one and
unfortunately not the last one who was cheated by this way, as they used to take
students for working without signing any agreements, and after few month of
working pay nothing or a little bit and firing them.
> So listen:
>  Before all translators will begin to work they must study how to work with this
site and men on it. We learn special lessons with instructions and tricks how to
cheat. We learn how to cheat you (men) on the letters, presents, in chat. Main
target is to push you spent money. I want to tell you all plan of cheating.
> All clients in the agency are real. And all they have own translator. We are
writing that translator only help to write letters but in real clients even don't
now about 90% letters. Also we do distribution. We compose one letter (its named
day's letter) and sent it to all men, at first who online, admires, favorites and
then to all base. If you think that this letters compose client and translator
just translated it - you are completely wrong!!! I worked in this organization
only 1,5 month but during this period I notice that clients  come only for night
chats 2-3 times per month. Even in chats you ma think you are talking with girl,
but in fact you are talking with translator-cheater.  If you are asking woman to
turn on video and she is trying to avoid it( by telling you that chat room is not
working, problems with video or she didn't use make up today, or smth else) the
you can be sure that she is not in agency and you are speaking with translator-cheater.
> Also we learn how to cheat to on presents, how to push you to do it by dropping
hints. So if the woman tell you how she loves flowers or she admiring the gold
accessories her friend bought last week- be sure- this is a kind of trick for you
to spent you money.. 

PROOF FROM AN EX EMPLOYEE!!!!!!!!!!

Hi Jim,
 
My name is ****.  I would like to talk to you regarding filing a Class Action suit against RLM.  After spending thousands of dollars on this site talking to many girls I met a girl by the name of ****.  **** and I started corresponding via MSN Messenger Live.  She was the only sincere and truthful girl that I met on the site.  We developed a relationship after a short period of time and we are now currently together.
 
**** worked as the manager of her agency that supported the girls from RLM and other sites as well.  When I confronted **** with my suspisions regarding the girls earning money from the chats and only interested in this without the sincere desire  to ever meet the men they chatted with **** told me the truth of this and confirmed this was true.  I was thankful to **** for being honest with me and it did not interfere with our relationship.  I spent very little money chatting with **** on the site before her and I started talking on MSN.  This fact is what attracted me to her as she is probably only one of the very few honest and truthful girls on the site.
 
****'s duties as the manager of her agency was to keep track of the girls earnings by documenting the chats and the letters they received as letters also are deducted from the credits men purchase.    After a short period of time I agreed to help **** with these duties by designing a Microsoft Excel spreadsheet that made it easier for **** to keep track of the girls chats and percentage of money earned. 
 
Here is another fact that **** informed me of. 
 
When men send flowers and gifts, the girls do not receive these flowers and gifts.  The girls receive a small percentage of the money the men pay for these.  The agency then tells the girls to come to the affice (which is usually the owner of the agencies home or appartment)  so they can take a picture of the girl holding the flowers and or gifts so these pictures can be emailed to the man who purchased them for the girl.  The same flowers are used as long as possible for all the girls who are sent flowers from the men. 
 
**** has agreed to testify to these facts as well as other facts and information of how the sites fraudulently milk hundreds of thousands of dollars from men each week.  We also have copies of the documents that show what the girls have been earning and their site ID and full name. 
 
Please help me in help you to file a Class action law suit against these fraudulent sites and get them shut down.
 
As you probably know, The corporite offices for RLM is in Florida and therefor are within the juristiction of our courts. 
 
Please feel free to contact me by email or call me at ***-****
 
Thank you
****

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MORE PROOF FROM A FORMER EMPLOYEE - LATIN!!!!!

Hundreds of U. S. men are being tricked with one “Dating Site”. Day after day, the numbers of tricked men increase, notwithstanding the warning of other men who know what is really happening in that “Dating Site”. This page I am constructing is meant to be a defense against such trick. It will be useful if you contribute with warning your friends about the existence of that scam. If we make this warning to snowball, then we will succeed. The more persons you warn about that cheat, the better.
 
The “Dating Sites” in mention is HRB / RLM, which have alliances with some marriage agencies, mainly in Ukraine, but also in Colombia, Peru, Argentina and other Latin countries. These agencies engage women, who are as much in want of one job as in want of a husband, and translators, to partake in this trick. The translator (male or female) is confided the task of idling men with a chat of coquetry while the young woman is supposed only to smile at the video cam. The more time the tricked men idle in chat, the better. The more men the translator idles concurrently, the better. Both women and translators get a commission for it. The amount of this commission is unknown, but, for sure, risible, and this is maybe the worst. I worked in the agency of Medellin, Colombia, for almost one year, and I can state that girls worked without a covenant with their managers about the commission. They simply get one pay for chat, which is rather capricious or arbitrary, and one commission for gifts. To let you know how risible this pay is, I will mention the case of the girl with whom I was working for these last six months (from January to June of 2009). Her nickname is Sandgom. The Sandgom’s average is about 10 men daily. Every message in chat cost less than one dollar. The average of messages every man enter is about 100 a chat,  which may amount to about 80 dollars. So, ten men chatting with us might have become a 800 dollars gain for the owner (or owners) of the “Dating Site” every day. But how much for Sandgom? As a daily average, she uses to get only 15 dollars. As for the gifts, when one man orders flowers for one girl, the girl do not get the flowers but one little commission for them (about 10%). I can say the same about the other gifts, as candies, English lessons, and jewellery.
 
Of course, there are many suits against the “Dating Site”. How are they preventing themselves to get convicted? One of their stratagems is to make girls to swear in one video that they are in their respective agencies, not for money nor for gifts, but for their wanting one husband, which is wholly false, except for some little women.
 
We, translators, are also tasked with writing such letters as this ones you will read now, which are designed to cajole men in one pretended amatory relation.
 
We can conform one love to the one which we have idealized through readings of dreamy romances, romantic films or merely our fantasies. I confess myself to be one woman with many fantasies. I have read that "The true freeman is he who conforms himself to his reason". As for myself, I think we have certain feelings which we can not reason about. Sometimes we try to reason why we behave ourselves this way or that way. There is no precise reply, but colours in our sensations: One blue as background, one orange in the letters comprise your name. My meaning is not to reason you into an error. On the contrary, I want you to comprehend how delightful is to have met each other as one kind of discovery of new worlds. I can now fantasy much better, with different colours, and more figures. I feel able to write, to compose and to sing under the delight of being connected with these expectations.  What is preferable, one conformity of each to other, where we are not able to learn by dialogue, as one pair of eyes, impossible to face each other, or one light difference, by means of which we are in ability of concerting an harmony? In the field of love, are you a conformist to some determined ways of making court to one woman, or do you invent news ways of loving? I am sure that is the last one. I think we have differences, but we linger in some of our qualities, which are in the confines of wellbeing.

You are like one very enjoyable sweet fruit, which one eats every time, and never it is coiling. Some remembrances are good, but some anticipations are much better. When heaven betokens rain, one gets ready to enjoy the evening in the best position, in the best place of the home. When I communicate with you, your words betoken the best of one man, it is not only his benevolence, but also his intelligence, in one mixture with male powers. Do you know what is TO VERB one noun? It is to use it as one verb. In this case, If I verb your noun Lorenzo, I could use it to denote one quality of man able to fly with me during our chats. When I mention the verb TO FLY, I mean your exclusivity of pleasing me with words, which can take me into dreamy worlds. When we communicate, we feel our respective arts. We are not the fantasy of one mysterious person sitting at one desk. We are real, we are one sensation started with one simple HELLO and continued with the best of our wishes. This feeling will have no end, as long as we have our will of being together. We are lighting one candle in one room where there was nothing but darkness. Every chat with you is one candle. We are seeing now our room decorated, very well decorated. Nobody else can have such room as we have. Your confessed feelings about ourselves confirm what your eyes had approved of and they confirm me in this worthy situation of my being your female part. Your statements confirm me in the confidence that I have found my male part, the one that will act as one cogwheel able to move this Great machine of love. Our senses are engaged in the search of GOOD, but our mind is one bird with EAGLE EYE able to distinguish good and bad persons. No doubt about your ability to love, no question about your integrity. Do you know what is PHISIONOMIZE? It is one art by which you can deduce the quality of one persons for his (her) look. Our eyes are one kind of SCANNER, when they look at somebody, they hardly could be wrong. I am not wrong about you. I see you, not only in the screen of one computer, but also in my dreams, in the cheese cake, in the eyes of my children, in the drops of rain, in the shadows of sun, in the scent of best mall.

Do not stop PHISIONOMIZing, we are not wrong, the best of ourselves is still to come through other senses than eyes. I want to become, not only the recipient of love, but also the conferrer. I am very pleased to remember you. It is said that the best conditioner of love is one session of face to face with the beloved. Love is conditional on nothing but on one mutual correspondence. I feel well loved by you and this makes me so happy. I will become one necessary part to your life, as air, as food, as music, as laugh, as water, as sun. Let me become such thing.

We will care for our feelings, as flowers in one garden, as plants in one wood, as colours in one notebook, as lines in one verse, as violins in one symphony. Love me as I love you, and you will feel the force of our benevolence. The future is now. We are present, with the experience of past as one worthy value. We can say that our Verbs are commuters in one almost mysterious process. Every day is one means to learn much more about our abilities. The past tense of verb SEARCH, the present tense of the verb FIND and the future one of the verb LOVE, in their respective conjugation, this is, I SEARCHED, I FIND YOU and I WILL LOVE YOU, are an evidence that we are no accident in this world out of control. The recurrence of our good feelings are extensions of one congeniality discovered by us. We are an alliance, we are one fellowship. We talk congenially, congenitally united by something we can not touch but we can feel.
 
Much before my becoming one woman, before the conglobation of my breast and before the development of my reason, nobody was able to guess what would happened in one time as ours.

International Link (Medellin, Colombia) is the name of the agency in Medellin)

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Here is a letter i recived today.................I did not send them a n y money,,,but i have spent thousands of dollars on RLM...I got addicted,,even one guy from Bogota ,,,who i sent my phone # too called me and said he was a ghost writer and could not continue becouse he was a hired scamer,,, So i complained to hot r b and they fired hi m and droped the agency in bogata,

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Jim i am sure you are exhausted with Scams by now.. however, pls note that your dedication is amazing and very well recvd.

I am also a victim of the Hot Russian scam.. I spent several hundred dollars before I realized that the girls responding were answering questions I didn't ask as well as I could see they were jumping back and forth between several computers. Had a girl from Uruguay tell me she wanted to come to the states. We arranged for a trip. She was paying, and then Suddenly she had an auto accident and said she couldn't come until she felt better.. but the next day when chatting with one other girl I was writing to  I saw her behind the one I was chatting with and she was on line chatting with another man ..she was fine laughing bouncing around and amazingly sexy. then her next excuse was she was having legal issue with her divorce and her attorney said she couldn't leave the country...when I asked why and that she had written saying she was already divorced, left the chat and She disappeared. . There were too many other incidents to name. But I can confirm that on many occasions Hot Russ stopped the chats when I asked the girl for other contact info.. Literally invaded the chat room and stopped our ability to communicate. To be able to react that fast especially over the Internet means they had to be monitoring the entire conversation from the beginning.  Hahahaha too bad as they really are damaging themselves

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Hi Jim,
Thanks for preventing people from scam.

I dont have horror story .; may because I know very well Russian and
Ukrainian people since I lived there 3 years when i was 17 yrs old. I speak Russian well.
people there are good broadly speaking. I like them better than American.

life conditions are very hard there. this explains horror stories and the fact I couldn't find girl for myself.regarding HRB. I have made a tour and found out pictures of a girl I know very well.

http://www.russ**nlovematch.com/profile/profile.aspx?toid=130846

she's prostitute and she's not looking for relationship with men abroad. she likes her country and lives there very well since she's pretty. This is a proof that girls on this site are fake
regards

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hello I just want to tell the expeience  that I had  with RLM, I
was a member for about one year I had the gold  member ship for almost that year, I
had email severals ladies, back and fore and  and all they want to to chad. I had
seen some ladies chating from  my time 9 and  am to 1  pm my time which means they
had stay all nigh to chat , I seen some  ladies on the web, and some times they chad
with no cam web which I feel it is a  different  lady, I chated with some ladies
with no webcam , and then I email  them and mention if they remeber what we talk
about on the chat and they said  they do not remember the conversation at all, and
they mention that they had  left for I while and they will be back later on,I had
mention to a girl why she  stay al night on the  webcam and she said she was wating
for me which means  it  is a bunch of b,,, the regular membership was free which I
could read all the  incoming emails, I try this morning to read my emails, and
 they told me that I  have to upgrade my membership to gold  and then I could read
my emails, which  means more  money for them, and if I want to get information from
I lady I have  to spend 2500 credits which is about a 1000 dollars just to get inf
from a lady  , this means  I feel is a scam they just want the money, and if I want
to travel  to see the lady I have to go through their services only plus the 2500
credits   in chatting time,I can not give or get a personal emails fro a lady, I do
not  recommend it to no one, also a lot of the pictures from the ladies are  about
from  three to four  years old,  I had waste my time and money for  nothing,  tell
other people not to go to this agency they will waste their time  and money, and I
was chatting with some ladies,  they make the time run slow  that measns they take
their time to write, and that ,  means money from my  pocket every minute is about
50cent , the longer I stay on  the webcam the more  money I spend, I had
 seen a lady on the web cam for a few minutes then I shut  off the webcam then she
just hang up on me with out saying good night or nice  talking to you, just  plain
cold,  I had mention some ladies ifhoe serious they  are and they do not mention
nothing , all they say it will take time to know  each other through the webcam,
that means money for them,so with  this  experience I feel that the agency wants is
money . I do not recommend it to no  one, big mistake,waste of time and of course
money. if you had any ? please feel  free to emails thanks JIms, from ****

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The company in FL that runs this whole thing is scamming the guys and the girls. The
funds possibly are being used for bad activities abroad. Bad ethics are already the
fact (the web site).

I can show you how this works, but you will have to wait till it's busted up to know
all the facts involved. A short description of it without the facts I think will
help you.

Agencies working with (HRB, RLM) in many other
countries are involved in the collection of woman  with the enticement of husband
from wealthy countries not just America and the UK. They give them photo shoots and
help them with profiles for free and give translated letter templates to make first
contact.  If the girls are in need of money they ask them to work (for real money)
in the chat rooms and write letters.  All the other girls who post there (personal)
photos not created by the agency are required to abide by special (laws) we call
rule or terms of agreement. The free agent girls are required to respond to each
email to have there free listing and the use of the chat. Breaking the rule will
result in there profiles being removed, and the threat of possible arrest in there
country if they pass contact information  without going through the agency. The top
domains RLM & HRB are funding these private agencies worldwide
 also providing the web site for the girls to registrar on  which I know the name of
but cannot tell you at this time due to the ongoing investigation into the  top two
RLM & HRB and the private Agencies worldwide. Each Agency is a different person
like a CELL (if you know what I mean) and this is what is being investigated  (the
little guys) The one big guy at the RLM & HRB  is the worst pond scum out there, he
is like a slave trader with many other web sites which deal with Americam Green
Cards and black market brokering of doctors and nurses around the world. His days
are numbered once the money in his operation is found to sponsor terrorism or slave
trading or any other activity within our country or in the country in which the
little guy is at. The software used for writing mails and have chat between each
party Girls and Guys is censored for web addresses and symbols which provent either
side (GIRL or GUY) from getting out info on each other to
 make contact. This is how I cracked this scam I was able to have a girl contact me
direct and slowly give me the run down as much as she knew. One comment for the
Guys looking she made to me is this: " a small amount of the girls are just playing
to get there own rocks off but most of them really want to leave there country and
marry a man" As you can see from there main page false advertising is in play.
Trips to the country (COMING SOON) This is a prop to make believe the site is real
they have not even tried to make this happen. Here is a great resource link to some history
http://web.archive.org/web/*/http:///www.hotrussianbrides.com  at this site you can
see what the past web site looked like and even read the links. I don't believe us
guys should hold the girls to blame if you know this picture then I can show a way
for guys to brake through there software and make contact if the girl wants to make
contact. I will not give you this info right now I will wait and see how you do in
response to this post plus that posting of this information will cause them to
figure out how to stop this type of infiltration  to there system. Collect address
and I will give the info to you Jim in one month and you can send them an email
explaining privately how to bypass there system. It will work only for about a month
before they figure out what we have done.

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Just to inform you that girls from RLM use this site
marriageagency-Nataly.net also. I personally have been invited to chat on
the marriageagency-nataly site by girls at RLM. I was at this
RLM site for awhile and the girls from Nikolaev are the worst!!!!!, There
are 11 different agencies that use RLM in Nikolaev alone, and at least 90%
are scammers. Now they are using Nataly to entice men to 2 way video chat so
they can spice up the chat by offering sexual pleasure that both can
participate in. I as an investigative type, joined Nataly and yes the video
chat works, and the girls there are a lot the same girls on RLM, but mostly
from Nikolaev and some from Novosibirsk, they can simply switch sites and
Viola!!!!!  I don't know a lot about how the systems work but it seems that there needs to
be a connection or parent site that these agencies run under.

ANYWAY THE GIRLS ON RLM ARE ON NATALY ALSO AND USE RLM TO SELL THERE TIME TO
NATALY. I ALSO SAW IN THE SECTION OF NATALY ABOUT COMMISION THAT THE GIRLS
RECEIVE. OF COURSE THIS IS IN THE LADIES RULES SECTION AND WRITTEN IN
RUSSIAN ONLY.

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I have spent a lot of money with HRB and am not happy with
the process.  They take my money, represent the girls to me, I chat build
relationship, then I have to deal with another entity to get contact info
and they want more money.  Then I refuse to pay and the girl says if I don't
pay she will stop chatting.  This looks like scam to me...I can get her name
and contact if I send $50, I have all the chat saved as word file, what
should I do.  I am pissed at HRB and have called the Florida
Governors Office of Consumer affairs.  They have no complaints on them yet
Do you think I have a case for anything or is it just my loss..

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I would add these to the grey or black lists for the following reasons
1. The edit emails for exchange of contact information
2. If I am intereted in someone, I write one email back explaining that I will not contact them anymore unless the SMS me or email me. I send my information. They almost always respond that they cannot and want to correspond over the site. I do not write back and they do not follow up.
3. I seem to be getting the same emails from different girls
4. I am corresponding with one person that states that those sites pay commission for emails generated. Winners receive vacations.

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Jim I have a ton of information. First the girls are not real or they
are real and the agency does most of the writing. I thought I have a
relationship with one lady and I switch sights. Well that was a huge
mistake the letter went from personal to nothing but generic bull. Today
I got a letter that the lady thanked me for relying to her letter when
she never wrote one. Then I get a letter from a 29 years old hot looking
doctor. Just after I gave up on a 35 year old doctor.

Jim it is just enough real and hot chicks on camera to get you going.
Well I bite for a couple months but I am giving it up. Tired of being
taken for a sap.

These folks use cam and chat lines. But it is not real. The lady spend
hours after hour on the site wait for an dude like me to bite. When you
check it out nothing make any sence. It is a scam all the way.

The name of the agency hotrussianladies the same ones that were featured
on TV. Anyway I just found out about them through you group thanks.

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I recently joined an agency called: HRB. After paying more than 120
dollars for a platinum membership as well as extra contact credits.I found that my
e-mails were censured.After paying this fee I was not able to send my e-mail address
to the ladies nor were they able to send me their phone numbers.The information was
deleted by the site.I think most of the women on the site work for the agency.The
longer they keep you on the chat line the more you pay.Also it is impossible to ever
make a real contact since they delete your information.This is nothing,but a very
expensive chat site.The women for the most part are not really interested in a true
meeting.Just chat which I am convinced that they get paid for.I do not know if you
have other complaints,but here is mine if you need to add it to others to make a decision.

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I have some problems with a dating
agency. This agency have two names,   HRB / RLM
 I had subscripted and we cannot exchange ipersonnal information and very bad
customers services. We can chat but this is costly and their computers are very
slow, so it's mean more costly. I asked many times how can I meet a lady from their
site but no true answer. They said " The paiment for a meeting and the arrrangment
must be trhough by me (The administrator).... Very strange..... Do you have any
informations, just for me, I will put these site on the Black Lists.

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Hi Jim, I am glad to see your site here. Although too late for me. I just want to
tell you that you are correct about the rumors on HRB & RLM. I have spoken to a few ladies that did admit that there are
certain girls at certain agencies that they represent as "workers." These girls show
up every day from say noon to 6pm EST and work the system to keep men chatting. I
know, I was one of the $4500.00 victims. It is a shame that more information is not
available about them.

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FYI, would rather not hassle it..but during the summary I invested about
3K with RLM and a potentially related site called Origin Dating Club. 
 
I can tell you without question, the girls are there to make money on
video chat.  I met several girls.I'm young, 41, good looking, had plenty
of girls.  But interestingly, each time I met one, spent weeks of
time..it always got to a point and the girls would seem to just try to
keep the conversation going as long as they could without taking next
steps. 
 
This happened three times..
 
.and after 3,000 bucks.I knew I was had. 
 
So..any fool that looks at the ladies on that site.and thinks they're
real..is totally a fool..like me. 

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I read your review of RLM and joined for a few weeks to
check out what you had said. Just for fun twice I stayed online and awake
for consecutive 24 hour periods and noted that many "women" chatted for 24
hours continuously (impossible for one woman of course) and, of course,
their web cams were only only for part of that time. One of their
affiliates in Saratov stays open twenty four hours seven days a week!!!!!
Hard to imagine a single woman in the cold of winter at an agency at 4 am
her time chatting for love!!! And, like behappy2day, that Saratov
affiliate agency ("Angel" ????), surprise, surprise is located steps away
from a university  (e.g. Saratov State University) and has a majority of
its women young students. Also, the way RLM is set up,
multiple men can watch a woman on her webcam. Ten men watching one woman
generates $300.00 per hour income. About seventy women are online, on
average, 24 hours a day seven days a week. That is SERIOUS income. With no
contact information available directly RLM is clearly an
agency devoted to "not finding" partners!! I am an attorney and got
interested in this business when a client had some problems with an agency
in Russia. I have studied this industry now for almost two years.

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Re RLM and HRB

Hello Jim.
I think that more information needs to be placed on internet on these two sites.
If a guy does not know that these two are a mirror site he can be swindled easily.
Some girls chat with you for a while, then say "Oh I must go home now" or "Oh I must go to University for my English classes.), especially if you ask them questions that may require proper answer.
They appear to be logged off at HRB - then if I go and look who is online at RLM, they are available for chat on the other site.
I watch this happen for many hours.
One girl who I was in chat with does this on regular basis.
She told me on one occasion that she only comes to HRB to chat with me, one day by accident I found RLM - and she was logged in on RLM and available for chat.
This one girl who I was chatting with, all false smiles and etc; I said to her "I have heard that some girls get paid to chat on this site" - her eyes on video cam told me the truth.
Her answer "I would not know about that" and within 10 seconds "Oh I must go home now" is the reply. Quick "bye" from her and she is logged out.
There are supposedly 28000 odd profiles, but it is always the same 200 - 300 pretty girls there ready for chat.
When I log in, I am bombarded with chat invite screens from these girls. This is done by the website.
Sometimes I take up the chat offer with a new and pretty girl. They have no idea who I am, as I ask did you look at my profile, the girl answers " Oh I am just brining it up now"
If you are prepared to monitor this site and see when the different girls log on, you may notice something odd. The girls are eating cakes etc; and having coffee.
I can log into the site as invisible and then watch the girls on video cam, without their knowledge.
I like to surprise them and send a quick message, they are taken by surprise and try to finish their cake, thinking you have not seen them yet on video.
I think that some of these girls do not know that us guys are paying 50 cents a minute to view them.
There was one girl at HRB who I liked a lot, she looked very soft and feminine - sort of honest.
I told her that it cost 50 cents a minute for me to watch her on video, her eyes showed disbelief at this. Her reply "Oh I did not know this". She has not been back to HRB since that time. Almost a month ago.
When I have sent a message to a girl " for me to meet you I have to pay 1000.00 USD and chat with you for three months in chat" this message never gets to the girl. The site is monitoring what is sent in chat screens.
Being inventive there are ways around this.
I pushed one girl into a corner in chat with her.
I told her this site is making a lot of money from you chatting with me.
I told her how much we have to pay, and so on.
She became upset, said she had to go, and was gone in all of 5 seconds.
I knew she was running away from my questions.
I waited around for a while, logging in and out every 30 minutes. After three hours there was a "letter" from this girl.
She accused me of many things, saying that I was calling her a "girl from the street" that I had upset her terribly "and I had disgraced her" and she did not wish to speak with me anymore.
All this from a girl who was promising to meet me in 6 weeks time.
I think I hit the raw nerve, and she bolted for the wild blue yonder. I think her accusations were meant to make me feel bad - and for her to have an excuse not to chat with me, and make it seem as though it is my fault , so as to cover up her scam.
I think she is as guilty of fraud as the website owners. 

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I had a bad experience with a Russian dating site and it was suggested that I tell
you about it so maybe you could list it on one of your lists if you have not done so
already.

The Site is called HRB

When you sign up on this site, it has different levels of membership. The site
offers live chat with web cam capabilities for the ladies. But, in order to be able
to get the contact information on a particular woman, you have to be what they call
a qualified member. Now, their definition of a qualified member is a paid member at
the highest level for at least 3 months at $50 a month. Then you have to buy a
minimum number of credits to use on the site to be able to use the live chat/web cam
and so on. After I was a member for 3 months, I inquired about my status as a
qualified member, now, I had already paid $600 for 3 months and extra credits, they
told me I needed to buy a minimum of 2500 credits, I had only purchased 1100 at the
time, so you can imagine what the cost would have been. All this just to get a phone
number or an email address. Your emails are censored, your chats are censored, your
pictures are censored. The only good thing I got from this site is the first lady I
started chatting with sent me her regular email address in secret code during our
chat, past their censorship program and we immediately started corresponding on
Yahoo and we still are today and planning a trip in the future to meet. I feel this
site is only there to take money from lonely men. The lady I met there was going to
an agency to access the site and told me the girls would get paid to keep men
chatting and viewing their web cams and getting them to buy credits. She would see
them having performance meetings when she went to the agency. When she told me this,
I immediately cancelled my membership. I you do not like your money very well and
really enjoy chatting and viewing some really nice eye candy, then this site is for
you. But, if you really want to meet a sincere Russian/Ukrainian wife to be, then
look elsewhere, this is definitely not the place.

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I see you have HRB on your grey list. I am beginning to 
believe it belongs on the BLACK list! I have been here for some months, and  spent
a good sum of money, fortunately, that is no problem for me, yet it is  still
nerve racking. I am writing because of your RUMOR about girls being paid  to
keep men in chat. I believe, but cant prove, this is true. For example, I am 
50 years old, look about 40, yet I get BOMBARDED immediately after signing in 
from YOUNG, 18-25, YO women, who have obviously NOT read my profile, because I
 do not want children and they ALL DO, asking to chat. I am not stupid,  so I
shoot them down without even answering. But I did talk to one older lady  for
about 20 minutes, @ I credit per 5 minutes, that is not bad, but once you go 
to video chat, it becomes 1 credit per MINUTE! So potentially you can have 6 
credits every five minutes being "LOST". after we chatted for awhile, she 
claimed to be a doctor, I asked what area of medicine she practiced! Lo and 
behold, her allotted time was up and had to leave the agency! Haven't had a 
request for a chat from her since! This sight DEFINITELY needs more scrutiny! 
There are some very beautiful girls here and I think not all are scammers, but 
beware!! Think smart guys! I may just write a few ladies that I think are on
the  up and up, tell them where I'll be staying in Yalta this summer and they
can  meet me there. We'll then see how serious they are, and I'll also see a 
beautiful part of the world I never have seen before!

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Thanks for your service.  Wish I had seen it sooner though.  I was using RLM until I started to feel something was not right.  I tried to contact a woman
I was interested in through her actual agency and through some searching I found her
agency online.  It turns out I had never been in contact with this woman at all.
Live and learn I guess...

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I've got a good one for you regarding HRB.
There is a girl I've known for over a year who I've been writing to through her
local agency in Melitopol. Today I was perusing HRB, doing a count of
all the many girls from the tiny town of Nikolaev when I saw my friend listed on the
      "On Line Now" window. So I spent the $30 so I could see and talk to her live.
Well, to my complete surprise, the girl in the video was NOT my friend Yana from
Melitopol. My curiosity got the best of me and so I asked the girl who she was. I
told her she was not the Yana I know. She said she had just been to he hairdresser.
Can you believe it? LOL!!! Her facial bone structure is completely different and she
doesn't look anything like Yana. So I played with her a little longer and asked her
to tell me what she knew of our history. She came up with some bullshit about
meeting in Odessa or something. So I ended off and wrote to HRB to
tell them what happened and asked for my $30 back.
We shall see.
I've included here a copy of my refund request to RLM, a "Print Screen" shot of the
scammer and a photo of my real friend, Yana of Melitopol.

I just thought you might get a kick out of this and maybe it can be used to help you
in some way.

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I only wished I had seen your site earlier! Although I wasted a few thousand
dollars; you have probably saved me over $10,000. Like many of your other
testimonies, I too spent a lot of time (hours each day) "chatting" on "RLM."  Here's some of my observations that made me go "hmmm...:"
 
* I could tell that the women on the web camera were talking to more than just me.
 
* The more I talked to a particular woman, the slower her response. This seemed to
happen a lot with women without web cameras (web cams). I couldn't understand why
unless they were talking to many different guys. After a while, I started to get
frustrated because when you chat; TIME IS MONEY.  The meter runs as long as you are
connected. It runs TWICE AS FAST when they have a web camera. I finally realized
that their objective was to "milk my account" for as long as possible. Talking to me was secondary…   :-)
 
* Women that chat on a web cam get irritated when you shift the camera off. In fact, they knew once I turned it off. Until I "pulled my head out of my butt," I couldn't understand why that was such a big deal.
1. It wasn't like she could see me.
2. I had already seen her that day.
3. It would extend my chat time and save money and time that I would spend with her instead of “feeding the meter.”.

Obviously, they were getting something more from the web cam than my "charming conversation."  :-)
 
*Although they desperately wanted me to come for a visit, only one of them would
give me a phone number. I kept wondering how she expected me to find her until I
realized (thanks to this site) that I was simply being "sucked" into part "B" of the
scheme; where I pay the agency to set up the meetings. I suppose the ladies make a
nice commission if they can get you to go there.
 
* Now Jim, I don’t have your “spidey senses,” but I think I possess a measure of
common sense.  I try not to be cynical, but when I see a lady on-line at noon in
Florida time (8PM Ukraine time) and she is STILL on-line at 9PM Florida time (5AM
Ukraine time!!!); I have to call “BS.”  It is a lot of the same women who are doing
this, and some of these women are HOT!  When I first joined HRB,  I chatted with a
few of them (and they were on a web cam). It was easy to tell that they had been
awake all night.  However, I stopped talking to them once I became enchanted with
one particular lady (a 35 year old woman from Kiev).   Unfortunately, I caught my
particular lady (that I had been chatting with solely for over 5 weeks) doing the
same thing.  We always had a “set time” to chat, then I would sign off.   I was
planning a visit with her and her family soon.  We had chatted earlier (6PM Ukraine
time) and I wanted to surprise her with a letter and attach a new photo of me and my
adult children. It was 9PM Florida time (5AM Ukraine time the next morning) when I went to
send her a letter and to my suprise, there she was on a web cam. I could tell that
she was talking and typing to someone. Her English was good. She looked tired. Just
as tired as the ladies looked when I use to chat with everyone in the early morning
hours.  She stated that she had waited for me all night (11 hours) to talk in the
morning.  I told her that I had to go to bed but I had left her a letter with a
photo. I knew that she was not being exactly honest with me. She stated that she had
to leave also and would be back in 2 days for our normal chat (normally at 6PM
Ukraine time). Yet, that very next night she was again on-line at 3AM Ukraine time;
typing away to some guy.   I was disappointed with her to say the least. I was
easily spending over 2 hours and  easily over $100.00 per day chatting with her.  Do
the math: (7 x $100.00) x 5 weeks…   Yea, I had a little money invested in her on
correspondence alone….That is when I started checking out discussion forums and found out
about your site. If I had seen this site months earlier, I may be seeing a foreign
lady right now.  You’ve got valuable info here and you have saved me a lot of future
trouble. What one of your earlier writer stated now makes a lot of sense and I’m
sure it is true; the ladies get paid a commission and this is nothing more than a
part time job for them. This writer was lucky to find an honest lady that told him
what was really going on.
 
Jim, I’m not a guy who is or ever was “desperate for a date.” In fact, I am
currently seeing a lady from here in Florida. The reason I went looking for a lady
from the FSU because I wanted someone with values. I also stayed away from the 18-29
year olds.  I also have the financial means to make any woman feel secure. I enjoy
kids, I work out and stay in good shape, and I live in a place where it is very
safe. I thought I had a good chance to meet a Russian or Ukrainian lady and lose my
singe man status. However, the only thing I lost was my money and time.
 
 I would like to send this message out to all of the guys looking for a REAL
RELATIONSHIP with a woman:
 
*Leave the RLM site alone!!!
*Don’t make the same mistake that I and others have!!
*Put your credit cards back in your wallet and move on!!
 
What a waste of time and money!!! I am sure there are many women in the FSU who are
really looking for a husband. However, I don’t think you’ll find any on this site.
For me, the most important thing to remember is that it has been easy to make up the
money I wasted; however, I will never be able to recover the TIME that I
lost…NEVER…I told my present girlfriend about my experience and we now laugh about
it. I have actually shown her this site and the women on-line. It has been over 6
months since I left the site, and yet many of the women we saw on-line are the same
as when I left. I see they have added Latin women to help draw more clients.
Anyway,  it gave us a good laugh and it is good to humble yourself from time to time
and realize that there is “a little fool in all of us.”
 
Thanks again Jim…

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Thank goodnes i found your site with respect to HRB. It was very helpful in hindsight (for me).
 
I have an interesting story to tell....
 
Some pices of infomration that may be of interest to add to your site.
 
This information was confirmed as a result of "confession'' from one of the ladies on the (HRB) website to me.
 
This lady was so compelled by my honesty that she told me the 'truth'. I was only a member for 3 weeks but spend some $350 on credits and gifts - annoying! 1. Only 10% of the ladies on  HBR are honest and looking for partners. Most of the 18-25 girls on HBR are employees. They answer an advertisement in the local newspaper for "18-25 year olds, knowledge of english, part-time job, good money." They are told they are "here to earn money not fall in love."
 
2. The ladies employeed by the agency receive a commission based on the time they live chat and the letters/emails they reply to. Obviously they want men to use Webcam as it is more expensive and eats up those overpriced credits from which they earn a larger commission. The delay in response is the most obvious - i agree. I think some men could even get a strip show on there - if they wanted! lol
 
3. Ladies do not receive presents or gifts as proclaimed by the website - they receive the monetary value of it instead.
 
4. Employeed ladies recieve their commision paid on a monthly basis. 
 
5. In any event, i was told that many of the ladies on this website even have boyfriends. I have found that liars, cheats and scammers on HBR can be found as a result of: (1) the time they send on time as you point out; (2) ladies with the same professional photographs in the same place - that is hilarious to me.
 
The lady who confessed this story to me gave me the number of another guy she 'saved from the experience'. I called him and had a good chat - his advice to anyone was "leave this site alone - it is all fake".  

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Hello Jim, you and your contributors are absolutely correct about the site “RLM.”  I found out the hard way (after spending some money), but perhaps
I can at least help others from my knowledge. After chatting a short time with a
lady, I gained her trust and obtained her phone number.  While off the site, she let
me in on what goes on at their Yalta office.  I’ll be brief and tell you what she told me:
For the girls, this is a job. The girls earn approximately $3.00 per hour.  They must produce and if they do they
can earn additional money.   They work in shifts
If they can not attract men with their profiles, they use another woman’s profile.
The women I talked to considers most of the men “old perverts.”
Women invite men come to visit, but they have “actual lives” there in Yalta as well.
In other words, they already have boyfriends.
 
Perhaps I’m not being fair as I am only using the Yalta office as an example. But
what I have seen has convinced me that further searching on this site is going to be
a huge waste of money. The women’s interest is simply not genuine.

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Big Jim!
  
    How are you doing!  Well I wish I would have found your site earlier, as I am
sure you have heard a thousand times!  Well then it became my mission to catch
these jerks!  I will paste a couple of chats I had with a couple of ladies
there!  A few of them are good girls and usually don't stay for long!  So I
played the game and got the info I was looking for!  This is and actual
conversation with two ladies!  Stick this at the top of your page for everyone
to see!  I am sure the words speak all the truth anyone will ever need!  When I
started with that site I too was smothered in 18 year olds!  Well I am not
interested in little girls.  So check it out:
  
  
  My lead in.... 3/13/2008 5:31:45 AM:
  ..........but many here do it just to get a big chat list! It is good for business!
  Her reply...    3/13/2008 5:33:36 AM:
  I don't want to judge these girls...they need to survive...and this is their way to get money
  Actually I believe in this gal, she is really cool and has been a straight
shooter.  She wanted to leave the site and so did I but we could not find a site
that is so easy for us to use.  So we are just hanging out here until we can meet in the spring!
  This next one is from the sister of one of the chicks i talked to when I first
became a member.  Everything was just 'perfect' then one day she just disappeared.
 A month later I get  a letter from her telling me she met someone else!  Well
according to her sister, who does not like her sister at all and thinks she is a
jerk, spilled the beans and this is some of what she said:
  Lady   3/11/2008 10:45:03 PM:
  Would u like very honest advice from me?... But do not ask question about my
advice, please...
  Me........ 3/11/2008 10:45:25 PM:
  ok i am ready for your advices
  Me........3/11/2008 10:45:41 PM:
  I won't question...
  Lady.... 3/11/2008 10:47:03 PM:
  ok...
  Lady.... 3/11/2008 10:48:56 PM:
  My advice is...delete urself from this site;
  Of course she refused to talk about the reason but later in the chat I talked
about my thoughts of the rlm site and she agreed.  Actually this gal is also very
cool.  One of the truly honest women in this world.  She is going to be leaving
the site in the next couple of days because she thought it would be different and
because she took advice from her sh!t sister to join it.  The second chat isn't so
damning but the first one really spells it out!
  So I hope this helps out!  At the least if it saves heartache for someone who is
serious in his search for destiny.  I am not really upset about the money... money
is just money... and I spent a lot of it!!  But I hate to be jerked around and
played with.  Of course it can be said I took this out of context so if you would
like to see the whole chat transcript I saved it!
  Thank you for your efforts and keep up the good work!
  
  Thanks,
  ****.

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Dear, Jim

I will agree that HRB & RLM are scams and all they want is your money. 

My Story, I lost about $500 with the site and it's a joke.  I was working in Kharkov, Ukraine for three months and I was using the HRB site.  In the first two weeks, I was chatting with a women that has serious intentions to find her man.   She asked me for my number though HRB,I agreed.  She also told me that she would agree to meet me as long that her translator could come..... Ok I said.  Then my phone rang, it was the translator and said to in order for us to meet that I would have to pay $150 for the meeting and $50 per hour for translation.    I though what a rip off!!!!!!!!!!   NO WAY.

For those who are thinking about using HRB or RLM,  this is my advise.....  List yourself on the site, and if there is a girl that you are interested in, check other website and see if she listed. If she is.. research the website and see if you can get her contact information,  then peruse the correspondence with the other website, not HRB or RLM.   

Additional information:  HRB & RLM;  use the IMBRA as an excuse that they cannot exchange personal information, this is a false fabrication to make us believe that we have to become a qualified members in order to meet the women. (Read the IMBRA). Remember, do not use dating site that prevent you from freely exchange information.

Best,
****

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Dear Jim
 
      I also did not do my  research until, one of the "Ladies" openly admitted she "worked" for the site,
This is how the scam works:
A Mulitude of agencies have woman who go to this site. The  Agency pays the girls a commission for time in chat, Time in Cam, and number of  emails they receive from you.b. The Agency (oneof them is call orchird) located in  Odessa, Nikoleav and Kherson, get a USA dollar forevery email that needs  translation for the ladies, the ladies receive some comission.c. I have had at least 12 ladies when I pushed them for a  confession they said they did in fact work for the Agency. d. The Clincher!!!! One lady who seemed very serious was  using her Angency computer not at ne of the web site computers. She was using a  translator (Live) The translator gaveme her number by hiding it in a story line  so the monitors would not pick it up I called the translator and she informed me she use to  work for the web site, and quit due to the fraud that was being committed. She  then left on her own and is now running her own service which is legit. She told  me everything e. I do not know of you are aware, but here is a  shock...HRB and RLM is owned and operated by a company in  Florida!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I am currently trying to contact the Florida AG....I have  the name of the Owning company....f. Be ware....ALL CHATS ON THESE SITS ARE RECORDED....at  any time...they can go back with the ladies ID and pull up every chat she has  had and read everything that was said....including ALL YOUR  CHATS
 
BEWARE!!!!!!!!

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Dear Jim
You would be interested to know that my girlfriend is on that web site...against my
advices. I tried to warn her that she will be exploited. She works long hours, most
of the time sitting on a chair waiting for a pigeon to appear on cam. My GF does
this job because she needs money but she signed no contract and have no clue on how
and when she will be paid. Her "colleagues" are not giving her any real information
about it. In short, it is bounded labour, the worst form of slavery. So do not blame
the girls, some of them do it to really find a man, some just just to make some
money and if they can smell that something is wrong, they just go on with it because
they have no other choices> Most of the time, my GF translates for other girls. If
you read the Terms of the contract, it is written clearly that fees are due even if
you cannot succesfully cancel the deal! Their lawyers are sharks and smart. They are
for me the bad guys by putting their intelligence at the service of exploitation.
Greed.-----------------------------------

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Thank you for the service you are performing. I too have been taken in by Hot Russian Mail Order Brides' web site. When I posted my e- mail address after numerous letters back and forth, to the same lady,they deleted my e-mail address.  I also noticed that the faces of the woman didn't  match the rest of their body and realized the rest  was a mannequin with her face on top. I wrote to  the attorney general of Florida and I awaiting their response. Their corporate name is Romantic Tours and I believe they are a Florida corporation.

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HRB and all the other names...romantic tours in Dunedin off pinehurst....  you should see the hole in the wall place this gets run out of... I   could go take a picture for ya. FYI - Leslie Raguso is the one who   writes all the fake bios for the girls and photo shops up the pixs.   here is her myspace page. myspace.com/sunchser69 she gets paid like a   grand a week to rip off men while Greg Pearson hides in the tropics.   MILLIONS and the FL attorney General doesn't care about 1000's of   complaints either -

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Jim,

I thought you might be interested in my recent experience with RLM.  I'm copying you the e-mail I just sent them.
****

From: ****@****.com
To: info@RLM
Subject: Fraud
Date: **** Oct 2009

On 8/10/09, a woman whose screen name is Tanushka90, User ID# 272280 sent me the following letter:

First of all I would like to say that distance between our countryes does not matter to me as long as we are interested in each other! I think that the perfect relationship is when two people love, and trust in each other completely and have mutual respect for each other and they have great communication between each other and work together always, and they love each other completely and unconditionally and don't try to change or control each other, you know how it happens sometimes when one of the partners always wants to check what the other is doing. I'd like to have the relationship when both have full freedom to do anything they want, but they both just want to be near each other, because they don't want anything else, they don't need anyone else. I hope you understand what I am talking about? Like they have choice, but they choose each other all the time. I  think this will be called "real love." What do you think of that?

I know that no one is perfect so if you have at least one of this very important values for me, I can tell that you are my man already  I respect:honesty, directness, sincerity, seriousness, openness and attentiveness!  I graduated an artschool few years earlyer. Now I work as a designer here in Simferopol I am making clothes home and then selling them to some wellknown stores in Simferopol and sometimes Kiev.  I consider myself to be easy going person. At the same time I am a person with very strong values. I mean, the first thing I do here on site, I try to find out if people really are serious or not. I know there is a lot of people on the internet that just like to play games, and are not serious. This people I don't speak with. I am serious in my intention, and I try to find my soulmate. Maybe I am just naive, but I have no plans to give up yet.

If you could have one thing-what would it be?
What do you respect most in woman?

Hope to receive a letter from you!

On 10/06/09 I received the exact same letter, word for word, from a woman whose screen name is Aneles, User ID#276471. Would you care to explain that? The woman who sent the exact same letter to me back in August had a totally different profile; different woman, different age (she's listed as 27 years old), etc. Please investigate this issue and I would appreciate a response from RLM.  Your site has a bad reputation as many customers suspect that the women on here are fake and its incidents like this that ruin your credibility.
 
Sincerely,
****

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